my hubby is great, my gr. daughters was something different....thats great, a whole house fell on him....kinda like the evil witch in wizard of oz....just the feet sticking out with striped socks....i can see that and find it a most desirable end for him.....actually, thats really cute...lol...
statistically, there are more middle class and professional white collar wives who are abused....doctors, lawyers, dentists,,and police ect....its only been lately it wasnt seen as only a "poor or blue collar" situation....i used to council ladies in calif. thats why its soooo hard to see g.d. go thru it....ive done all i can do for her, so its her call now, but i do think she'll go back...time will tell...
that is/was my stressor this time....i get thru it fine, and then go to pieces...was that way as a nurse also....adrenalin is deadly on the body...
my garden is my sanctuary....it does cause some stress, but a learning kind, like how could i have been that stupid? i should have seen that...i know better than that...all duhh moments....its one of two places i run to when totally whacked out...the other is to sleep....i have slept thru some of my greatest crisis's.....without aid either....just zonk out...great escape...dark cold room and warm covers....
refused to marry for yrs, due to the dregs of a bad one....i did contribute tho, i could not keep my mouth shut....kinda like the movie, "war of the roses", i knew it was comming, so head on it...get it over with....
hubby is an anchor, he sees me getting stressed out, and he will tell me we are going home, or do something to get me back to our safe house..he watches my eyes and body language....its a rule that we tell no one where we live....too many stessors in the world when you dont have a hidey hole....besides that, we have the garden to protect...thats the truth too....
i really love our plastic lawn chair, koi pond and garden with a 35ft travel trailer in the middle home....its really small, but heaven....it works for us and that is all that counts...a hobbit hole....