Sorry to hear you're still bummed, Brother, and I know we discussed it a few weeks back a little.
IMHO, there are basically two types of growers: the ones that do it for the money and the ones that do it for the love of growing (although, nothing wrong with the latter making a little money on the side!). If you're doing it for the money, it's going to be a chore, at least at times.
If you're doing it for the love of growing, while there's still work involved, it basically becomes a "labor of love".
While growing needs to come second to things like family & work (and, in my case, getting my house re-done!), I know I personally don't feel "normal" unless I have a grow up.
If your issue is that your growing more than you can get rid of and it's not paying for the cost of growing, I'm betting you can downsize to two tents and still supply the wife with plenty of superior meds while cutting your work & expenses in half.
If the issue is that you've really lost the love of growing (which I can't for the life of me believe or you wouldn't be here!), then perhaps another hobby is in order?
Tending to the grow should be a way to "De-Stress" (forgive the pun!) from all the headaches of real life. If you're finding it's giving you more headaches, you definitely should change things up, or take a break.
I'm rooting for changing things up!
Stay positive, Brother, and figure out what's gonna' make you happy!