yup!! Same here.... I've tried to explain this to my lady multiple times... But her mom raised her to care about others and not to speak up/ have an opinion of her own... I have been working on changing that, not necessarily good in my favor, but i cant stand people taking advantage of her kindness and willingness to help, when i know they wont reciprocate.... She gets pissed at me cause I either, walk away mid conversation (with other people) so I don't speak my mind, or speak my mind and come off as an asshole for telling it the way it is... People are soft these days. Can't handle the truth.
I'm going to pick up some of those rubs to try... I got a new propane BBQ last year, but apparently it can work as a smoker too... I'm going to have to try and figure it out.... What's your cook time van/and or blew?... My dads got a traegar. Fathers days coming up, maybe ill try to spoil him lol