Welcome To My New Journal - OMMSOG

:rofl: I love it!! Yes! Confidence goes a long way!! I was just kidding about the age difference between men and women! :rofl:It is not how you feel it is how you look! Darling.....You Look Marvelous!!! :high-five:

Oh, I have confidence, more some days than others but I am also humble with it. Since I am older, my body has been going through it's changes so I am a bit conscience of my body. And I totally agree with what Msme was saying, society has made it ingrained into our brains that skinny is better though now people are starting to come forward and accept themselves as they are. But the mainstream society is still screaming be skinny, you can't be natural, you're only pretty if you wear make up, the list goes on. I also think that men are also pressured to be a certain way. We're all f@cked up thanks to society, that's my belief.

Like Msme, I always believed in the happily ever after. And when I wasn't getting it placed the blame on myself. I have a lot of personal issues going on that I really need to let go of and I am seriously thinking about going to see a therapist. I am noticing the way it is affecting me. And due to OMM sharing his experiences through story telling, I decided to pick up on where I left off here about rat. So, thank you OMM for doing what you do and being you. I think this will be a good therapy for me. So here is a big hug for you ((((OMM)))
 
Stoppin in to see how everyones doin, miss bein on here, just haven't really had the time anymore with work and all, but you can bet your ass i got time for a grow though, just got done with some lemon skunk and some chemdog, some serious stuff, but yea hope everybodys doin good, i'll be stoppin in more often, hopefully i can make a journal of the grow i got goin now, arjan ultra haze, super silver haze, white rhino, and some northern lights crossed with big bud, and i also re-did my cabinet since the last time i was on here, other then that again i hope everybodys doin good, i'll be back soon, def. miss you guys, see ya soon!!!
 
Oh, I have confidence, more some days than others but I am also humble with it. Since I am older, my body has been going through it's changes so I am a bit conscience of my body. And I totally agree with what Msme was saying, society has made it ingrained into our brains that skinny is better though now people are starting to come forward and accept themselves as they are. But the mainstream society is still screaming be skinny, you can't be natural, you're only pretty if you wear make up, the list goes on. I also think that men are also pressured to be a certain way. We're all f@cked up thanks to society, that's my belief.

Like Msme, I always believed in the happily ever after. And when I wasn't getting it placed the blame on myself. I have a lot of personal issues going on that I really need to let go of and I am seriously thinking about going to see a therapist. I am noticing the way it is affecting me. And due to OMM sharing his experiences through story telling, I decided to pick up on where I left off here about rat. So, thank you OMM for doing what you do and being you. I think this will be a good therapy for me. So here is a big hug for you ((((OMM)))

I think you are totally confident!! I agree with everything you state about society. We are all controlled by the media. Men are pressured to feel guilty if they don't buy jewelry for yearly special occasions. Women are supposed to feel quilty if they don't look a certain way. The reason it is so funny is it is true. Which actually makes it sad.

OMM has a great journal. It is a place to have fun and meet interesting people. I don't need to know what you look like Queen Toke! I have a creative mind so I am sorry.... In my mind you are 25 and have a rock hard body!
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Hi MsMe I was being factious, guess it doesn't translate well while writing. Sorry. I would never hurt you're feelings on purpose. The Disney thing was just too preposterous to take serious. It did hurt generations of women thou.:smokin2: Again sorry!

To be honest, I've never removed fan leaves in veg. However taking cuttings is a kind of defoliation it's self, so I don't think you did any harm. :cheesygrinsmiley:

You didn't offend me at all OMM...I love a spirited discussion and will sometimes disagree with people I secretly agree with just to see if they can defend their position!!! Hope I didn't come across as too preachy??? I think the world could use more nonjudgemental civil discussions among people with differences!!! This is truly a special place where that can happen & you should be proud you've made it that way.

I love men and generally prefer hanging out with them to most women. I think society sends similarly damaging messages to men also. Not sure you can blame Mr. Disney though??? Maybe you can cause hes always telling you to be big & tough so you can save us...lol.

Life is good & the bad experiences I've had make me appreciate the everyday small things even more & that was the original message I was trying to get across. Every minute of every day has led me to where I am & made me who I am & I kinda like me!!! I hope everyone gets to feel that in their lives eventually.

I'd read in another thread that you shouldnt remove large fan leaves before the secondary ones were fully formed so I was pretty careful and only removed the ones I thought were blocking the new growth so I think it'll be ok??? I don't know if it's the high brix or the OC+ or what but I've got (had) some ginormous fan leaves & they were getting in the way quite a bit.

I still believe totally and completely in happily ever after, I just know I have to create it for myself...

Sending nothing but good vibes to everyone in 420 land...
 
You didn't offend me at all OMM...I love a spirited discussion and will sometimes disagree with people I secretly agree with just to see if they can defend their position!!! Hope I didn't come across as too preachy??? I think the world could use more nonjudgemental civil discussions among people with differences!!! This is truly a special place where that can happen & you should be proud you've made it that way.

I love men and generally prefer hanging out with them to most women. I think society sends similarly damaging messages to men also. Not sure you can blame Mr. Disney though??? Maybe you can cause hes always telling you to be big & tough so you can save us...lol.

Life is good & the bad experiences I've had make me appreciate the everyday small things even more & that was the original message I was trying to get across. Every minute of every day has led me to where I am & made me who I am & I kinda like me!!! I hope everyone gets to feel that in their lives eventually.

I'd read in another thread that you shouldnt remove large fan leaves before the secondary ones were fully formed so I was pretty careful and only removed the ones I thought were blocking the new growth so I think it'll be ok??? I don't know if it's the high brix or the OC+ or what but I've got (had) some ginormous fan leaves & they were getting in the way quite a bit.

I still believe totally and completely in happily ever after, I just know I have to create it for myself...

Sending nothing but good vibes to everyone in 420 land...

I rarely remove the bottom fan leaves. But I would if they were blocking new growth. The leaves I remove during veg are the smaller fan leaves that start growing after I fim or top. The leaves grow so close together that shade other node areas of the plant that are growing. There is one grower on this site that is so agressive on defolating that his clones look like twigs when he is done. After I saw the results he had after totally stripping all his leaves I became less fearful about it.

I love spirited conversation too. That is a good test of someones charactor to challenge thier beliefs!! I bet you learned a lot very quickly!!!
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Hi everyone, :ciao:

Just stop to see how things are with everyone. Does anyone know if OMM has started his other journal?
I had been busy all day dealing with the custody stuff. Can someone help me to understand how 2 un-wed adults make a baby (well that just sounds stupid- but needs to be part of the point). The mother knows who the father is, fails to notify him he is a dad for 2+ years. And does not show any father on the birth certificate. Gets into several various felonies and is charged with deferred sentence on 8 counts over a 5 year period. Lets her mother take care of the kid from birth to present age of 4yrs. She submits to the state for paternity test after the 2 years and only names one person who could be the father , my son.

So I have been completing legal paperwork to help him out of a state ordered support, by the way DHS has not even determined who has legal or physical custody. be cause the were unwed - neither of them have custody. Really??

So I had my son sign over POA (power of attorney) and get the document certified at the county seat. Then we head to another town where is support is being claimed against. So I'm in the game now as a POA. I can handle things when he cant be there. Son tried to get the judge to get an attorney, Judge flat out refused to appoint one. The kicker to this is that Im going to file an official documented complaint against the judge and his lack for the procedures of the court and for his misconduct. I was refused to be able to speak with the judge, The clerk advised she did not have to allow it. Well, that s another story. So I left, knowing exactly what would happen next, The judge is an elected official or he is appointed.. They are nothing special and try to hold power your head. Not me, So this judge is the drug court judge that the bio-mom has for drug court. He sees her name and refuses to file or give an order. Im planning on making it know to the public, media, and allowing the Indian tribe my son is bring their media and I' going to make a public spectacle of the court there.

After I get home I am looking at papers and find that the DHS only did the paternity and the child support, assuming the mother was telling the truth and without looking into her past, wrote her as the custodian. But neither her nor my son have custody. Now can you believe that??? What a bunch of bullshit. So Last time I am working on orders. My son I Indian, not that it matters, but the Indian tribes have their own sovereignty and Constitution and are not subjected to the district courts or the state. So heading to Indian court on tuesday, to file finall papers for sole custody and then will get the biomom's terminated from her problems, Sh**tin' up, with the child in her presence.

Now I forgot what I was going to say. Guess I need some more Blue Dream. I needed it. Sorry for the rant but OMM said I could.:peace:
 
Hi again, just wanted ask you a couple more questions since you are so willing and wise :D

The first one is, I have popped a few beans recently and have had an issue with the cotyledons drying/dying at the very ends and sticking together, heavily stunting their growth and killed one so far. Have you encountered this or can you suggest a way to avoid this? I have had to perform microsurgery on 3 sprouts to unstick the cotyledons so far and they seem 100% healthy and strong otherwise.

The second question is, when is your newer journal starting? LOL
 
Oh, I have confidence, more some days than others but I am also humble with it. Since I am older, my body has been going through it's changes so I am a bit conscience of my body. And I totally agree with what Msme was saying, society has made it ingrained into our brains that skinny is better though now people are starting to come forward and accept themselves as they are. But the mainstream society is still screaming be skinny, you can't be natural, you're only pretty if you wear make up, the list goes on. I also think that men are also pressured to be a certain way. We're all f@cked up thanks to society, that's my belief.

Like Msme, I always believed in the happily ever after. And when I wasn't getting it placed the blame on myself. I have a lot of personal issues going on that I really need to let go of and I am seriously thinking about going to see a therapist. I am noticing the way it is affecting me. And due to OMM sharing his experiences through story telling, I decided to pick up on where I left off here about rat. So, thank you OMM for doing what you do and being you. I think this will be a good therapy for me. So here is a big hug for you ((((OMM)))

Excuse me for a moment while I bask in your big Hug! Queen!:woohoo::allgood::ganjamon::yahoo:

Ok! That made my day! :thanks:

MsMe Really did hit it on the head with her "Be everything to a man" example. Now it's TV that screws with us. Just how many diet plans, Cover Girl make up ads and clothes ads do we see every day?

It's the same for men. If we are not 6 foot 3 and have washboard abs and no body hair at all, we're screwed.
What about us normal guys? With the exception of xlr8, of course!
:cheesygrinsmiley:
 
Hi again, just wanted ask you a couple more questions since you are so willing and wise :D

The first one is, I have popped a few beans recently and have had an issue with the cotyledons drying/dying at the very ends and sticking together, heavily stunting their growth and killed one so far. Have you encountered this or can you suggest a way to avoid this? I have had to perform microsurgery on 3 sprouts to unstick the cotyledons so far and they seem 100% healthy and strong otherwise.

The second question is, when is your newer journal starting? LOL

how are you germinating your seeds?
doing it in soil? papertowel? rockwool? or one of those i forget the name lol
lights? type? how far? and any other detail i might be forgetting to ask? lol
 
Stoppin in to see how everyones doin, miss bein on here, just haven't really had the time anymore with work and all, but you can bet your ass i got time for a grow though, just got done with some lemon skunk and some chemdog, some serious stuff, but yea hope everybodys doin good, i'll be stoppin in more often, hopefully i can make a journal of the grow i got goin now, arjan ultra haze, super silver haze, white rhino, and some northern lights crossed with big bud, and i also re-did my cabinet since the last time i was on here, other then that again i hope everybodys doin good, i'll be back soon, def. miss you guys, see ya soon!!!

So there you are! Good to see you! You mean you have to work on cloud nine? Thanks for checking in....you sound busy....be looking for you when you can get back!
Take care of your self.
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ok back to the other discussion
you know i had women call me shallow lol
im a nice guy tho but i was always blunt and honest
everyones initial attraction is always if you like how someone looks to you, as in someone who looks good to me might not look good to someone else. actually if ive been called shallow so what looks good to me usually looks good to alot of others lol.
but anyhow no one can deny its someones looks you are initially atrracted to, because you cant be attracted to someones personality if you dont know them.
but so ive been called shallow because ive admitted not being attracted to certain women because of how they look, besides ive always been on the thin side and i guess i had my own personal problems of how people portray me being with someone, like look fat and skinny walking down the street fat fell down and skinny broke his feet.
ok i dont know where im going with this i just wanted to chime in lol
 
on another note i havent gotten any phone calls today so if i dont get one tomorrow and i still have a job i guess i passed the drug test lol
and this doesnt seem like a company that i have to worry about randoms so looks like im gonna dust off the cobwebs from the volcano this weekend
 
how are you germinating your seeds?
doing it in soil? papertowel? rockwool? or one of those i forget the name lol
lights? type? how far? and any other detail i might be forgetting to ask? lol

Well, you asked for it! Here it is from the man himself! Xlr8

How I germinate seeds:

I really like Rapid Rooter plugs. I've been germinating seeds in them since I started growing, and now use them for cloning, too. They're great as they can be used to germinate for soil or hydro, and easy to use. They contain important micronutrients and beneficial organisms to stimulate rapid root development. They have a really nice balance between moisture retention and airiness.

Here's my process:

I soak seeds for a few hours in a glass of RO water. The Rapid Rooter is soaked overnight in a glass of RO water.

Making sure my hands are clean and sterile, I shake the excess moisture out of the rapid rooter, or give it a gentle squeeze. Basically, you want them to be "moist" but not soaked/saturated.

I take a sterile tweezers, squeeze it together, and I stick it into the hole of the rapid rooter while I gently twist it around some. I've had better luck if I deepen the hole slightly, and loosen it up a little inside the rooter plug. You could also use a pen, etc. Basically, just loosen it up and make it about a 1/4" deeper than they come from the factory.

I use a clean pen cap as a tool to scoop the seed from the cup of water, and place it into the rooter. I used to do the "paper towel" method of "pre-germinating" seeds, but it is better to plant them directly in the rapid rooter (or whatever medium you use). You will have better success, and quicker development if you skip the whole paper towel thing, in my experience. When putting it into the rooter plug, I put it in pointy end up (hinged end down). Positioning it this way will allow the taproot to make the turn it needs to, and will put the seed in a better position to succeed and remove it's "helmet".

I place the seed about half way down into the rooter (again pointy end up) and then I tear a small piece of rooter plug to cover the hole on the rooter. It should not be "jammed" in there, but placed in somewhat loosely. The hole should be fully covered to not allow light in.

I place the plug in a humidity dome, under t5's. I don't use a seedling heat mat (only for clones and not directly under). I mist the dome periodically, but high RH isn't needed to germ seeds. The rooters shoudn't be allowed to fully dry, and should be moistened periodically with plain RO water.
Pre-soak seeds in glass for a few hours
Pre-soak rooter plug 12-24 hours (probably doesn't need to be that long)
Use RO water from store - do not PH balance it
Shake/squeeze out excess moisture in the rooter
Use a tweezers or pen to loosen up the hole, and make it slightly deeper.
Position seed in the rooter plug, pointy end up
Cover the hole on the rapid rooter plug by tearing a small piece of the plug, and loosely covering the hole.
Place rapid rooter, with seed in it, inside humidity dome, under flourescent lights (I use T5's).
Rooter plugs should be moistened with plain RO water periodically, but only moistened
Heat mat is not needed - and it can dry the rooter plug too fast. Humidity only needs to be around 50%. I just mist the humidity dome periodically.
No nutrients are needed with seedlings until the 3rd set of true leaves.
I transplant when roots are showing through the bottom and sides of rooter plugs

I've had 100% success over the last year or so this way. There are lots of ways to do it successfully, this is just mine. X


Worked for me! 6 out of six popped up!. :thumb:
 
ok back to the other discussion
you know i had women call me shallow lol
im a nice guy tho but i was always blunt and honest
everyones initial attraction is always if you like how someone looks to you, as in someone who looks good to me might not look good to someone else. actually if ive been called shallow so what looks good to me usually looks good to alot of others lol.
but anyhow no one can deny its someones looks you are initially atrracted to, because you cant be attracted to someones personality if you dont know them.
but so ive been called shallow because ive admitted not being attracted to certain women because of how they look, besides ive always been on the thin side and i guess i had my own personal problems of how people portray me being with someone, like look fat and skinny walking down the street fat fell down and skinny broke his feet.
ok i dont know where im going with this i just wanted to chime in lol

Well, that made sense to me....I think....that's pretty much how it goes sometimes. :thanks:
 
Hi everyone, :ciao:

Just stop to see how things are with everyone. Does anyone know if OMM has started his other journal?
I had been busy all day dealing with the custody stuff. Can someone help me to understand how 2 un-wed adults make a baby (well that just sounds stupid- but needs to be part of the point). The mother knows who the father is, fails to notify him he is a dad for 2+ years. And does not show any father on the birth certificate. Gets into several various felonies and is charged with deferred sentence on 8 counts over a 5 year period. Lets her mother take care of the kid from birth to present age of 4yrs. She submits to the state for paternity test after the 2 years and only names one person who could be the father , my son.

So I have been completing legal paperwork to help him out of a state ordered support, by the way DHS has not even determined who has legal or physical custody. be cause the were unwed - neither of them have custody. Really??

So I had my son sign over POA (power of attorney) and get the document certified at the county seat. Then we head to another town where is support is being claimed against. So I'm in the game now as a POA. I can handle things when he cant be there. Son tried to get the judge to get an attorney, Judge flat out refused to appoint one. The kicker to this is that Im going to file an official documented complaint against the judge and his lack for the procedures of the court and for his misconduct. I was refused to be able to speak with the judge, The clerk advised she did not have to allow it. Well, that s another story. So I left, knowing exactly what would happen next, The judge is an elected official or he is appointed.. They are nothing special and try to hold power your head. Not me, So this judge is the drug court judge that the bio-mom has for drug court. He sees her name and refuses to file or give an order. Im planning on making it know to the public, media, and allowing the Indian tribe my son is bring their media and I' going to make a public spectacle of the court there.

After I get home I am looking at papers and find that the DHS only did the paternity and the child support, assuming the mother was telling the truth and without looking into her past, wrote her as the custodian. But neither her nor my son have custody. Now can you believe that??? What a bunch of bullshit. So Last time I am working on orders. My son I Indian, not that it matters, but the Indian tribes have their own sovereignty and Constitution and are not subjected to the district courts or the state. So heading to Indian court on tuesday, to file finall papers for sole custody and then will get the biomom's terminated from her problems, Sh**tin' up, with the child in her presence.

Now I forgot what I was going to say. Guess I need some more Blue Dream. I needed it. Sorry for the rant but OMM said I could.:peace:

Hi seagem. I'll let you know when I start the new journal. No worries. For sure, it will be less than a week after I finish this one :high-five: This one will probably be like most of my journals
and will continue on for a while in the finished journals pile. It just happens that way, most of the time.:circle-of-love:

I think I followed most of your rant. What a mess! I think you are right in getting the Indians involved. Good Luck! Be sure to tell us how it's going! :thanks:
 
You didn't offend me at all OMM...I love a spirited discussion and will sometimes disagree with people I secretly agree with just to see if they can defend their position!!! Hope I didn't come across as too preachy??? I think the world could use more nonjudgemental civil discussions among people with differences!!! This is truly a special place where that can happen & you should be proud you've made it that way.

Thanks, that's what I had in mind.........I haven't found anywhere else we could that we could talk about the real issues of our lives...who knew it would be in a grow journal?

I love men and generally prefer hanging out with them to most women. I think society sends similarly damaging messages to men also. Not sure you can blame Mr. Disney though??? Maybe you can cause hes always telling you to be big & tough so you can save us...lol.

Well, I'm the same, as you as you know from my stories...I love women. I just seem to get alone with them better. If I don't talk sports with men, I can't seem to get them to talk about feelings. The exceptions are the men here on 420. I've been really enjoying the other guys opinions. They actually make fun of themselves.


Life is good & the bad experiences I've had make me appreciate the everyday small things even more & that was the original message I was trying to get across. Every minute of every day has led me to where I am & made me who I am & I kinda like me!!! I hope everyone gets to feel that in their lives eventually.

That' the secret! Self forgiveness is a big part of living.

I'd read in another thread that you shouldnt remove large fan leaves before the secondary ones were fully formed so I was pretty careful and only removed the ones I thought were blocking the new growth so I think it'll be ok??? I don't know if it's the high brix or the OC+ or what but I've got (had) some ginormous fan leaves & they were getting in the way quite a bit.

I still believe totally and completely in happily ever after, I just know I have to create it for myself...

Sending nothing but good vibes to everyone in 420 land...

Great MsMe


I still believe totally and completely in happily ever after, I just know I have to create it for myself...

Perfectly said My Friend!:high-five:
 
Hi again, just wanted ask you a couple more questions since you are so willing and wise :D

The first one is, I have popped a few beans recently and have had an issue with the cotyledons drying/dying at the very ends and sticking together, heavily stunting their growth and killed one so far. Have you encountered this or can you suggest a way to avoid this? I have had to perform microsurgery on 3 sprouts to unstick the cotyledons so far and they seem 100% healthy and strong otherwise.

The second question is, when is your newer journal starting? LOL

Hi Budley. Thanks, I've been here so long, some of the knowledge has sunk in. :peace:

Actually, our friend XLR8 has covered that in his paper on how he does seeds. When you place a seed in your medium...make sure the pointy end is up. When it grows to the surface the shell will be automatically pulled off.
Works 99% of the time.


Really like your name!:high-five:

Sorry...the new journal will start with in a week of when this one is closed...we are getting close.
 
So...when buttholes tell us that it's our fault they reacted with violence because we talked too much or didn't clean enough or whatever excuse they give to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions, we are more prone to believe them because we have been told our whole lives that we just aren't good enough.

Seperate topic....

OMM I know you defoliate your plants and I've seen the time frame this is done in flower but is it ok to do so in veg??? I took some clones today and removed a fair amount of fan leaves that I felt were blocking the light. I'm planning to put them into flower in about a week and a half after the recover from my cutting.

:peace:

Hi MsMe - No problem on removing leaves in veg, whatsoever. You can do almost anything to them in veg... Just give them a recovery week or two prior to bloom without much stress. I remove 'em all the time! :)

Hi again, just wanted ask you a couple more questions since you are so willing and wise :D

The first one is, I have popped a few beans recently and have had an issue with the cotyledons drying/dying at the very ends and sticking together, heavily stunting their growth and killed one so far. Have you encountered this or can you suggest a way to avoid this? I have had to perform microsurgery on 3 sprouts to unstick the cotyledons so far and they seem 100% healthy and strong otherwise.

The second question is, when is your newer journal starting? LOL

Hope you don't mind me weighing in on this.

Presoaking the seed in a glass of water helps (see my germination method post that OMM quoted). If you plant them directly into the soil (or rock wool, or rapid rooter, etc) the correct way and deep enough they have a better chance of shedding the casing.

if its above the soil and stuck still, You can help the plant immensely by misting the casing which will soften and lubricate it. A sterile tweezers can be very carefully used to remove it, but mist it first and give it a couple of minutes to loosen before attempting. Gently but firmly hold the stem in place so that you don't pull the seedling out when removing the casing, or damage fine root tips/hairs. Be very careful if removing it yourself...

Same goes for when there is a sticky film holding cotlydons together, it can be carefully removed if wetted first, though misting it might give the plant ability to do it on its own, too.

FWIW - I haven't had either happen in a long time now since switching away from paper towel method to straight into my media, and pre-soaking my seeds. Used to have it happen a lot before that though... and i hated feeling like I was going to wreck them (and did a couple of times before learning to mist them first). :goodluck:
 
Damn I been an old fart for awhile and didn't even know it!!!! I'm gonna follow X's lead and say I am too sexy to be an old fart.

I was afraid my post would be taken wrong - I'm so glad it wasn't! For the record though it took me a long time to learn that sexy isn't how you look, it's the confidence you exude. Knowing yourself, believing in yourself, and not compromising for someone else's ideals. Thats what i meant by that post. I'm okay looking I think, but more than anything. I am comfortable with me - which is the trait I find sexy in women, too (confidence, being comfortable with who they are). If I don't feel good about me and my sexuality, why should anyone else, ya know?

I love Right Said Fred, but the newer song (my kids play it) was on my mind, "I'm sexy and I know it!"

"I'm a model, you know that I am, and I shake my little tush on the catwalk... Ya on the catwalk, ya, ...." those were the days!!
 
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