I know what you mean about water phobic. I have seen it in my tent before for no apparent reason.
Try a full pot drench in a bigger tub of water. Be ready, a 10gal pot will weigh about 75 pounds fully drenched. I put my pots into milk crates solely to be able to root drench them.
Then let it drip out and give it a nice even full watering of mid strength calmag. You may see a nitro rush as the soil is likely very tight and locking out nitrogen a bit, and then keep it a bit wetter, not heavily wet, but that nice dampness you get shortly after watering, keep it that way for a full day, and see if it rehydrates properly.
Sometimes it takes 2 root drenches. After the 1st one squish the pot a bit and if its still lumpy and chunky feeling give it a 2nd drench a day or 2 later.
Then get some fish ferts in to calm her down after the full soaking. If you have any ewc then a nice 1/4 inch layer across the whole surface will help moving forwards.
I usually give all my plants at least a couple root drenches every grow. All plants aren't the same but we tend to water them all the same, which over time can lead to differences from pot to pot.
A full root drench is far gentler than watering way past runoff to rehydrate the rootball, and usually 3 or 4 days later you will see a ton of white root tips bursting out all over the pot walls.
If she is due for a tea or a feed, right after a full soaking is a pretty effective time.
You may see some stress as in curled leaf tips, or burnt leaf tips, so don't feed or tea for at least a few days until you see how the drench went. Fish ferts will calm that stress moving forwards but burnt or curled tips rarely disappear.
Warning though, if nutes are locked and you fix it, you will get a big rush, so the chances of tip burn and curled leaves from temporary nitrogen toxicity are real.
Keep us posted. Nice plants BTW!
I should have lead with that!