Hey I wasnt trying to single out woman just my wifeThat control of the light use is such a quintessential man thing.
I’m a light-sensitive person, as are many women. We need the light to keep our spirits up. In my living room there are 4 lamps with about 100 watt equivalent in each. All of those lights, along with the backlit wall from my veg shelf and the open closet when autos grow there are supplying mental health backup in the evenings.
Both the lamp and the pot lights in the kitchen go on at dusk and stay on until I go to bed. The lamp in the bedroom, a small 15 watt, stays on from dusk to bed. The nightlight in the bathroom never goes off.
I chose this apartment for the numerous windows up here above the neighbors. This apartment is filled with light all day, every day or SweetSue falls into depression.
My assumption is this is an indicator of my own ECS deficiency that I’ve been treating all along, but I don’t expect I’ll suddenly stop turning lights on when the sun goes down. I love the glow of light. I thrive in the ambiance of a well-lit room. Dark rooms scare me away.
This man I’m waiting to meet will be happy with this and won’t be asking me to turn the lights off. He’ll be looking for beautiful lamps to make me smile. Lol!
The way I was brought up was to turn off when not using them.
My old man would also give me crap if left doors open when furnance is on? What im
paying to heat the outside ?
Yeah fun times but great view to consider about light sensitivity. Never looked at from that angle?
It’s been 6 years with her and nothing has changed I still turn off lights . However , if you can’t handle ones bads you don’t deserve thier goods