Hey BabyGirl!
I fell a few pages behind, as usual, but I've caught up.
Liv is beastly! And you're getting all kinds of good advice on her treatment. I'd just like to weigh in on the defoliation issue.
I'm not going to recommend whether to defol or not. It really is a matter of personal preference, IMO. But I thought a pic of what "could be" might aid you in your decision-making.
So I went to the archives and dug up a pic of one of my bucket grows (an Alaskan Purple auto) and the shape she was in near the end. As you can see, I did remove much of the bottom stuff but seemed to try and leave most of the top stuff intact.
At least that's what I think I did. But this was from 2019 an it's all so foggy to me now!
Anyhow, I believe pics can sometimes be good guides and I hope this one helps you!