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@Azimuth is on to it... I have seen many times when someone in their zeal to not overwater, actually underwater. This seems to be one of those cases.
We need to get the plant growing roots as quickly as possible, and there is an art to it. We first have to give enough water for the plant to work with, but we don't want to overwater either. The solution to this, is learning about and how to use the wet/dry cycle.
Within days of the plant reaching the surface, it can be put to work building its root structure. It doesn't do this by itself, you have to make it happen. Those first few days of life some timid watering is actually called for (I use a sprayer) but once the seedling stops swimming around by day 3 or 4, it is time to water that solo cup to saturation, or to runoff. There should be no fear in doing this, because the plant can handle it, and the secret to not overwatering is to now give the plant time to take care of this sudden abundance of water. It will take 6 or 7 days for the plant to grow enough roots and suck up enough of the water that the soil begins to get dry. When it gets harder for the plant to get the water, it grows new roots to seek out every last drop in that cup, and even on this first cycle, it can do a pretty good job of draining that cup so much that you can barely feel any water weight in there at all.
When the plant has finally earned it, water it slowly, acting like that soil was a sponge and your job is to get every last drop of water in there that you can, until any extra comes out of the bottom as runoff. Stop at that point, but come back in 20 minutes and see if you can get a few more drops in there. Now you are fully watered, and the plant's job again is to use up all of that water and grow big while it is doing it. This second watering cycle will complete much faster, and in 4 days or so, she will need water again.
Continue making your plant earn its water by draining the cup all the way to the bottom, and so that the cup is so light you can't tell with your human senses that there is any water in there at all. Meanwhile, while you might think you are torturing your plant, it is growing huge and reaching for the light... you will know when you have a happy plant.
The wet/dry cycle will shorten each time and soon your plant will be able to drain the water in 48 hours or less. This is when you know that you have a solid rootball in that container and that soon it will be time to uppot into one at least 3x bigger, and then start the wet/dry cycle again, steadily building up bigger and badder root systems as you head toward your final container.
There are some other tricks you can learn about watering, like how to replace soil in the middle of the container with root mass, but you will have to read my watering article to see how its done, complete with pictures and arrows and all the trimmings. The link is below, in my signature. Hope this helps!