OMM - Just had to post... sounds like we have alot in common. 2 Years ago I left a marriage that should never have been. I was with the guy for 9 years of hell. Sounds like your case... sometimes our own feelings tell us that we can adjust to anything. But in the end we are worse off. I also stayed with him because of his young daughter. Long story...We can not know all the baggage that goes along with an individual, the longer the relationship the more we find. It either rubs us the wrong way, or we overlook it, and somethings just can not be overlooked when the other side fails to respect us.
Hope all is well, cant wait for your new journal... I absolutely love all the comradeship that goes on here.
Still working on legal stuff, Interrogatories now, I'll be so glad when all this is over. I waist alot of my time (well sort of) but when you love your kids you'd do most anything to help them. This is a child custody matter. He found out 2 years ago he was a dad of a 2 year old, she is a 8x's Felon, abandoned the boy to her mom who raises him (not really they just let him run wild) for the last 4 years. It is a big mess, so I might be indisposed here and there. I am really going to enjoy "Kicking her ass in court", not directly me , but I am the one with the paperwork.