Hey Tead!
Yeah, I'm a blessed man, and was fortunate to maintain well paid employment throughout my adult years. I never lived up to my means in my 40s and 50s, and was able to save for retirement. Many times I wanted to buy "things", but I usually resisted the urge. Well most of the time, I did spend a bunch on an old classic car restoration in the 90s, but it ended up being a wash as I sold it 3 years ago and got more than I put into it (minus a lot of time!). I thought college for my kids was going to break the bank a couple of times, but scholarships and grants really helped. Blessed, yes I am.
My wife wanted to keep the MIL cottage as it was, rather old and dated, but after I renovated it from floor to roof, she's very happy with my efforts. She was afraid one of the kids or grand kids would "need" a place to stay. That was a tough job, I haven't installed a HVAC system in almost 20 years, and had to dig deep into the grey matter, and hunt through a dozen boxes to find my gauges. I really like retirement and getting to do all of the home work myself, very satisfying (my wife calls it cheap).
Peace
Keith