Bass, your doing great for a "nublet"!
Here is a chart showing nutrient availability:
It shows the RANGES that the nutrients are available, and you can see that CA is absorbed in soil right between 6.5 and 7.5 PH. MN is between 5.5 and 6.5, or so.
I'm a big fan of this chart and have showed it to numerous people explaining exactly what you did as a way to emphasize the importance of maintaining proper PH.
However, it takes time for lockout to occur. PH has to be way out of range, or out of range for some period of time before lockout occurs.
Also, most nutrients are "chelated" which allows them to be ingested at a much wider PH range than is shown on the chart.
So, your points are all valid, but under these circumstances I just don't believe it was lockout.
Your PH test strips won't be as accurate as a digital meter (I mean, can you really tell the difference between 6.1 and 6.2 from the test strips?
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But, it should get you close enough to be in the proper PH range, and you don't need to worry about calibrating the strips! (I use a meter, so I'm not recommending the strips, just saying, they'll get you close enough to "rock & roll"!)
As 4twenty pointed out, the need to add cal-mag back to R/O water is pretty well known among growers using R/O (I don't use R/O but am very aware of the issue!).