Good morning P
Good for you, doing what’s right for you. Not that this is about me (while making it all about me lol). I think for me, because this is the one place I can share my Secret Garden I became super invested, made real friends, made enemies, laughed, learned, felt loved, then I’ve felt the negatives. I’ve been hurt when privacy has been violated by private words being taken out of context and publicly shared. Been hurt when posters try and cause me public embarrassment by obviously talking about me without saying my name, and hurt by people who deliberately try publicly gaslight me. But you know what? At the end of the day it’s how you conduct yourself. Your friends know. Fuck the haters. Fuck em in their miserable uptight arses! Lolling!
For me and my mental health it’s been finding that healthy balance. You and I have careers, partners, family, friends, full lives outside of these cyber walls. I was spending too much time in here. Made this place my main place. And for a good part of my day I was focussed on strangers who are trying to infect me with their pointless drama and their forum obsessed lives. When you focus on that, you become that. I have too much good stuff to let strangers who mean absolutely nothing to me infect and affect my day. Leaning back into my real life where I have love, laughter and life lessons has given me a new appreciation of the balance needed for my actual life and my cyber life.
For me it’s been about balance. I really hope you can find it. Finish this casita journey. You are liked, loved, respected, grow killer plants and bring a real sense of fun to the forum. Don’t let a tiny handful of circle jerkers spoil your time with the friends you’ve made here.
I love your guts, plain and simple. And I think 420 Mag needs a P
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brother to you n all of yours. CL
gardens looking lush bro and in full swing over there 
