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One thing I've learned, OMM, is to NEVER blame oneself for the "would'ves and could'ves" of life. You did what you should have done, which was pull yourself out of that fire...Its ok to be sad, and wish that someone else would have done something to help themselves, but her life was a product of her own decisions. She had a LOT of help throughout her life, she chose not to accept it...It is NOT your fault.
I know that I can't, but wish I could, help you see that.
Guilt is a killer, and I wish I could help you to let go of some of that...
Quix You know me well, my friend. Everything you said is right on. You brought tears to my eyes. I know I should let go....but part of me loves to suffer I guess. This is why I see a shrink. By the way my Shrink got me all the med appointments I couldn't get myself. In the VA, they kind of write you off after age 68. He talked to everyone involved. Good Man.
I've forgiven my self for everything else I've done.