OldMedMan Goes Indoors Part 2

RS was on a mission of self destruct, sounds like you dodged a speeding bullet that could of taken you both down. I admire you OMM, RS made some bad choices and broke you leaving you low, depressed and feeling guilty, you were strong healed your wounds got back to your feet and still wished the best for RS. :love:

The inheritance could of only made things worse, dealing with the loss parents is hard on anyone, this would of gave her motive and alot of money to cause more distruction on her path ok havok.

I kinda feel sorry for RS but she had chances to help herself, with the help you was willing to provide she could of turned her life around!

Hey GodSpeed:Namaste:

The were both from money, so that was not a problem. I offen wonder if she didn't get him to take her back to Greece. She loved it so much. Guess I'll never know. My son thinks she's in Napa State Hospital for the insane. Of course they wouldn't tell me if she was or not. Strage thing is she always wanted to live in Hawaii. OH! Well! History. :thumb:
 
The Story Continues.......................................................................

Actually getting back to a regular job was just fine for me. I've already mentioned getting all my RATT rigs all up and running. We finally got them all up and I will tell you I had seven very good Buck SSgt's - E-5s. They worked their butts off, getting things working.

I had one PFC I had to get out of the brig, he was in for smoking dope. I had a long talk with him, truthfully I told him this was his last chance to save himself. Do not smoke anymore dope, at least not on base. Go off base, if you just have too smoke. I also told him we had random piss tests. OK, he said. Three days later I was down checking things in the motor pool. I opened his Ratt Rig door. I almost got high on the spot. Smoke came billowing out. I stood him at attention and crewed his but out. He made promises, Right!

One morning while we were in the motor pool and he asked to go to his room, he had forgotten something. I said 10 minutes, no more. About 20 minutes later I was to told to go see the First Sergeant in the barracks. We I got there, there was the CO, the First Sgt.
and my boy. Every day the Co and First Sgt inspected the barracks. When they got to my boys room...they found him with his music booming and he was rolling a J. Back to the Brig and a dishonorable discharge. Idiot !!

OMM goes to the field.
One of our firing Batteries went to the field, of course we went too. One second night there, I was sleeping on the back of a duce and a half. I felt a really bad pain in my back.
I knew what it was.....Kidney Stones, I had them a couple of times in Greece. I told one of my guys to go get the Medic for me. Here he came....a PFC. I told him what I had and he said he would be back in a moment. I waited and waited, then I went to his tent. The idiot had a manual out reading up on Kidney Stones. This got me in his face! Get your ass in that jeep and take me to the field hospital! They took one look at me and I was air evacuated back to base.

A month later we went to the field again. Pretty much the same thing happened and I was air evacuated again.

Next month we when to the field again. This time I had an old shack to stay in...didn't help. Air evacuated again. My field days were over. This time when they went to the field, they sent me to help where I could at the Division Headquarters. I was to report to the Commander. I found him and waited while he talked with one of the firing batteries Commanders. The Commander never got any messages telling him when they were going to the field. He was always got the word late.

I said "Sirs I have seen his before, can I take a crack at finding out what's wrong."
They looked surprised and said "Yes." I had seen this before. All I did was go to the desk of the clerk who handled all orders to the Batteries. I opened his desk drawers and there were all the orders for that Battery. This kid didn't like that Commander.

I went back and told the CO what I had found. They both laughed and shook my hand.
I had brownie points with the CO. Perfect! This helped me later on. Big time!

Next up I had to investigate an incident that happened in the Mess Hall with one of our Lady Soldiers. She was going through the chow line and asked the cook on the serving line for some meat. He then his garbed his crotch and said "I got some real meat for you, right here!" Idiot!

She then went to see the Mess Hall NCO and told him what happened. Damned if he didn't say the same thing! Two idiots! So she made a formal complaint to the Division Commander. Soon after our Battery Commander held a men only meeting, which I attended and he told all the men not to even talk to her. I was stunned. This was totally wrong. I went to the Division Commander and told him about the whole thing. Boy was he pissed. I was her barracks commander, so the CO asked me to go talk to her.

After work I did go see her in her room. She was a cute little blonde and was changing clothes. I turned my back and started talking to her. She said "I though I was right doing what I did." "I said you did the right thing!" She said I could turn around so I did. Then it hit me! She was a stoner! Just something about her. I smiled and asked her if she wanted come over to my place and get stoned. She just beamed and said "Yes!".

She spent the night with me......and many more nights to follow.....Tao, Ann, and I had some great times together. For the next 6 months we had a lot of fun down at Big Sur and other places. She liked Lucy too! She was smart and wanted to go into law. She wanted to be a Lawyer. I got a letter from her after she got out and she was in Law School. She was doing it!.

To Be Continued .............................................................................




 
You seem to have a thing with women!! You are one lucky soul...The lady who files complaints for sexual harassment gets sexual with the OL MAN!!! And she smoked....What a great start to a new chapter!! Keep it up my friend!!! I have to say, I have a thing for blondes and it always gets me into a heartbreak or heartache situation....Then there are the Brunettes and so on!!! How are you feeling?? Is Jo doing well?? I wish the best to the both of you and great health...Or at least, feel no pain in poor health if you can't have great health right??:high-five:
 
What a interesting life you had my friend, thanks for sharing, watching weed wars right now, pretty interesting

Me too! Been watching it too! What a monster place! :high-five:

Your right, I can't complain. It has been interesting! :thankyou:
 
Weed Wars is an amazing place...Well shall I say Harborside Health...I started crying when I saw the father with his son who has daily seizures...What a great man. It just made me cry and hope for the best for the little one. I thank my lucky stars everyday for having a daughter in good health and even though I may not prey to the same gods as some others, I do prey for better days and health for all humanity. That young boy and his father was absolutely heart wrenching...And then to see that the boy went 4 days without a seizure for the first time in 4 years makes me feel so much more strongly about the Medical Marijuana rights that we have and how many more need to know about it..It just seems to have endless benefits to so many people for so many ailments...Hey, I'm even fine with the ones who use it socially or recreational...OK I will shut up now..That story just really got to me!
 
The Story Continues.......................................................................

Actually getting back to a regular job was just fine for me. I've already mentioned getting all my RATT rigs all up and running. We finally got them all up and I will tell you I had seven very good Buck SSgt's - E-5s. They worked their butts off, getting things working.

I had one PFC I had to get out of the brig, he was in for smoking dope. I had a long talk with him, truthfully I told him this was his last chance to save himself. Do not smoke anymore dope, at least not on base. Go off base, if you just have too smoke. I also told him we had random piss tests. OK, he said. Three days later I was down checking things in the motor pool. I opened his Ratt Rig door. I almost got high on the spot. Smoke came billowing out. I stood him at attention and crewed his but out. He made promises, Right!

One morning while we were in the motor pool and he asked to go to his room, he had forgotten something. I said 10 minutes, no more. About 20 minutes later I was to told to go see the First Sergeant in the barracks. We I got there, there was the CO, the First Sgt.
and my boy. Every day the Co and First Sgt inspected the barracks. When they got to my boys room...they found him with his music booming and he was rolling a J. Back to the Brig and a dishonorable discharge. Idiot !!

OMM goes to the field.
One of our firing Batteries went to the field, of course we went too. One second night there, I was sleeping on the back of a duce and a half. I felt a really bad pain in my back.
I knew what it was.....Kidney Stones, I had them a couple of times in Greece. I told one of my guys to go get the Medic for me. Here he came....a PFC. I told him what I had and he said he would be back in a moment. I waited and waited, then I went to his tent. The idiot had a manual out reading up on Kidney Stones. This got me in his face! Get your ass in that jeep and take me to the field hospital! They took one look at me and I was air evacuated back to base.

A month later we went to the field again. Pretty much the same thing happened and I was air evacuated again.

Next month we when to the field again. This time I had an old shack to stay in...didn't help. Air evacuated again. My field days were over. This time when they went to the field, they sent me to help where I could at the Division Headquarters. I was to report to the Commander. I found him and waited while he talked with one of the firing batteries Commanders. The Commander never got any messages telling him when they were going to the field. He was always got the word late.

I said "Sirs I have seen his before, can I take a crack at finding out what's wrong."
They looked surprised and said "Yes." I had seen this before. All I did was go to the desk of the clerk who handled all orders to the Batteries. I opened his desk drawers and there were all the orders for that Battery. This kid didn't like that Commander.

I went back and told the CO what I had found. They both laughed and shook my hand.
I had brownie points with the CO. Perfect! This helped me later on. Big time!

Next up I had to investigate an incident that happened in the Mess Hall with one of our Lady Soldiers. She was going through the chow line and asked the cook on the serving line for some meat. He then his garbed his crotch and said "I got some real meat for you, right here!" Idiot!

She then went to see the Mess Hall NCO and told him what happened. Damned if he didn't say the same thing! Two idiots! So she made a formal complaint to the Division Commander. Soon after our Battery Commander held a men only meeting, which I attended and he told all the men not to even talk to her. I was stunned. This was totally wrong. I went to the Division Commander and told him about the whole thing. Boy was he pissed. I was her barracks commander, so the CO asked me to go talk to her.

After work I did go see her in her room. She was a cute little blonde and was changing clothes. I turned my back and started talking to her. She said "I though I was right doing what I did." "I said you did the right thing!" She said I could turn around so I did. Then it hit me! She was a stoner! Just something about her. I smiled and asked her if she wanted come over to my place and get stoned. She just beamed and said "Yes!".

She spent the night with me......and many more nights to follow.....Tao, Ann, and I had some great times together. For the next 6 months we had a lot of fun down at Big Sur and other places. She liked Lucy too! She was smart and wanted to go into law. She wanted to be a Lawyer. I got a letter from her after she got out and she was in Law School. She was doing it!.

To Be Continued .............................................................................





Honorable... I knew it. And you were immediately rewarded for your efforts, and powers of discernment:thumb: Your the man OMM!!:adore::high-five:
 
You seem to have a thing with women!! You are one lucky soul...The lady who files complaints for sexual harassment gets sexual with the OL MAN!!! And she smoked....What a great start to a new chapter!! Keep it up my friend!!! I have to say, I have a thing for blondes and it always gets me into a heartbreak or heartache situation....Then there are the Brunettes and so on!!! How are you feeling?? Is Jo doing well?? I wish the best to the both of you and great health...Or at least, feel no pain in poor health if you can't have great health right??:high-five:

Pure Luck willoby! :circle-of-love:

Right place at the right time! :Love:

When I finish this story, I may tell another one about a club I joined that had 12 women to every man! That's where I met Jo. :circle-of-love:

I hear you buddy..trouble and heart break...but we do it to our selves! :high-five:
Jo got ckecked out today...she is doing well....just her feet and legs are still bothering her. We are hanging in there! :cheertwo:
 
:Love::Love::Love::circle-of-love::Love::Love::Love:OMM:Love::Love::Love::circle-of-love::Love::Love::Love:

I CAUGHT UP!!! (for this week! LOL)

:adore: Your girls look SUPER FANTASTIC!!! :thumb:

About RS... ... you did EXACTLY what you needed to do and I do so hope you have released all guilt for ending things with her. I am an alcoholic - but in recovery for over 12 years. Back in my drinking days my hubby wanted so badly to "fix" me. But that is NOT how recovery works and it leaves those around the alcoholic feeling very helpless because you can only fix YOURSELF, not anyone else. OMM, you tried to get her to seek help and she refused. You made your choices and she made hers.

:goodjob:And YOUR choices have brought you to a MUCH BETTER PLACE!!! :thumb:

Thoughts from a recovering alcoholic... I too have been in a depression (and very suicidal) a couple different times in my life. It's sure hard to fight when in the depths of it... and drinking alcohol only magnified my depression (egads did it!!!). When I drank I tended to dwell on the sad and negative things I was perceiving in my life (my father's early death, etc). Not a pretty granny!!!

In my early recovery days I was taking my own life's inventory and finding it very hard not to sink into depression due to the deep thinking and all the guilt I felt over hurting my loved ones. Often I would think of the dreaded words my beloved mom used to say to me when I was upset, "Don't sit on your pitty pot". I used to HATE THOSE WORDS!!! For me, hearing those words when upsetting events occurred in my young years taught me to stuff my feelings inside... not to cry when I hurt, etc... but drinking alcohol allowed me to release those feelings - YIKES!!!

Note: Please know though that my mom was a wonderful mom - it was how I internalized the words, not what she intended with them!!!

Anyhow, as I was trying to work through some pretty deep emotions and tons of feelings of guilt, I told my sponsor how that saying annoyed me and how I felt like rehashing my feelings was just more "sitting on my pity pot".... feeling sorry for myself.

She said to me, "Honey, it's okay to sit on your pity pot... just don't forget to do a couple things while you are there. First, don't forget to take your shit. And second, don't forget to flush the shit when you are done."

For me - it was just what I needed. Better therapeutic words than any therapist ever offered me.

So... OMM... I hope you have shit yerself out one RS and flushed all feelings of guilt about her down the drain!!! :high-five:


For some reason I want to :wood: come GRAB YER BUTT AND SQUEEZE THE GIGGLES OUTTA YA!!!!

:rofl::cheesygrinsmiley::rofl::cheesygrinsmiley::rofl::cheesygrinsmiley::rofl::cheesygrinsmiley::rofl::cheesygrinsmiley::rofl::cheesygrinsmiley:
:Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love::Love:
 
Granny, is no such thing as caught up here.............................. Hey hey all and Pop's Keepem Green. I'm going to catch up some hell only been like 8 pages. Later'
 
Granny, is no such thing as caught up here.............................. Hey hey all and Pop's Keepem Green. I'm going to catch up some hell only been like 8 pages. Later'

Hi Sprout!:ciao: Hey, man catching up is good......give you something to do! Every grow when I get to the this point, I start worring. What if this happens? Or that happens? 5 or 6 weeks to harvest is my worry time. They are getting close...dont mess it up! I need a smoke! :circle-of-love:
 
:circle-of-love:Hi Sweet Granny! :circle-of-love:

Fear not my friend, RS in gone in my mind. Writing about her has really helped me. It couldn't have been plainer......she was messed up.....she made some bad choices and has had to live them. I once thought of her as part of me, but she showed her true colors. She needed help and refused. She made her own bed. She has probably drank herself to death by now.

I came very close to being an alcoholic in my early days. Many drunken nights I didn't remember. A couple of mashed up cars and so on. Poor Tad, my wife back then.:surrender: I just stopped. I wasn't that bad. Thank goodness. Later I was addicted to prescription drugs after my surgery and voluntarily entered rehab. While I was there it was required that I went through AA and NA for a long while. It was a brand new experience for me. As I listened to everyones stories, I realized I was lucky. I did the 12 step and worked it. That was a trip, just like you described it.
Girl you had it bad. I have seen what you described you went through. Your one tough lady and determined. Good on ya Girl.

"Don't sit on your pitty pot" ....what a great thing too say to you.:Namaste:

Believe me, I know how your old Man felt. He wanted so much to help you, but you hadn't hit bottom yet. Sure glad you did,,,,,,after that, one starts to see just how far down you have went. I'm so proud of you!!! You did it!!!.
:high-five::hippy:

My son Tao, lost his wife, son, and received a bad conduct discharge from the army. I am proud to say he's in his 12th year of sobriety now and is guest speaker all over California now. He is taking care of his doper babies all by himself now. He had two with another stone doper wife. She left him with two really messed up kids. I am so proud of him.....Just like I am proud of you!. :circle-of-love:

Much Love My Lady...You did the near impossible! :thumb:

I don't think I have enough butt left for you to grab a cheek! They cut most of it off! I'll Giggle any way! :high-five:
 
Sounds like you have had a good life OMM, you have lived thats for sure!

The ladies love you dont they. Love the new chapter and its good to hear how your life moved on for the better.

Amen Brother......I have had a good life........when I had cancer at 42......I felt like I had a good life already and I was ready to go. Jo and I were talking tonight about me making it to seventy. I never dreamed I would still be around now.
I've never been stud or anything, just an average guy, however when I talk to a Lady I try to show them that they are important to me and I'm happy to be around them. Mainly because I am happy to be around them. :Love:
 
wow omm the story is awesome! :adore: funny how a real story moves you so much more than fiction! i was 6 pages behind! this thread is a locomotive!!! just chugging along stopping for nothing!!:high-five: i have been sober for 10 yrs i was a power drinker to the max, and woke up one day figured how much $ i had wasted on booze and i was done, that day! now i have 1 beer maybe twice a year, but it must be a very high quality craft beer, and thats it,:thumb:
 
wow omm the story is awesome! :adore: funny how a real story moves you so much more than fiction! i was 6 pages behind! this thread is a locomotive!!! just chugging along stopping for nothing!!:high-five: i have been sober for 10 yrs i was a power drinker to the max, and woke up one day figured how much $ i had wasted on booze and i was done, that day! now i have 1 beer maybe twice a year, but it must be a very high quality craft beer, and thats it,:thumb:

Good on you Mate! :high-five:

Your a rare person that can just stop. What will power!:thumb:

Glad you like the story! It was petty impressive what I got into next in the Army. Got fired by one Commander and it put me in one great place to grow as a person.
After all, I was an old Hippie. :Namaste:
 
Amen Brother......I have had a good life........when I had cancer at 42......I felt like I had a good life already and I was ready to go. Jo and I were talking tonight about me making it to seventy. I never dreamed I would still be around now.
I've never been stud or anything, just an average guy, however when I talk to a Lady I try to show them that they are important to me and I'm happy to be around them. Mainly because I am happy to be around them. :Love:

I know that feeling OMM, when i was in my dark stages of life and doing things that looking back now i cant believe it did, i used to think i wouldnʻt live to 30, well good news is those bad things are long gone and done with only green and even that is to medicate not like youth days of being totally fried out stoned all day everyday.:cheertwo:
 
Weed Wars is an amazing place...Well shall I say Harborside Health...I started crying when I saw the father with his son who has daily seizures...What a great man. It just made me cry and hope for the best for the little one. I thank my lucky stars everyday for having a daughter in good health and even though I may not prey to the same gods as some others, I do prey for better days and health for all humanity. That young boy and his father was absolutely heart wrenching...And then to see that the boy went 4 days without a seizure for the first time in 4 years makes me feel so much more strongly about the Medical Marijuana rights that we have and how many more need to know about it..It just seems to have endless benefits to so many people for so many ailments...Hey, I'm even fine with the ones who use it socially or recreational...OK I will shut up now..That story just really got to me!

Amen to that willoby, these are definitely the stories that prove we need med marijuana and that it works, it also works for pain and if someone is going to use something for pain relief why not let them use MJ instead of prescribing OXY, fricken people here are crushing it up and smoking it, since its so close to heroin, also i heard now they may be even melting it and shooting it up too, geezzzzz just legalize MJ already, its a no brainer:Namaste:
 
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