Hi, iamhigh (& all the rest of you!)
1st off, i want to thank you for this great thread. I've been having a ball reading this, and yes, i've been LMAO.
I've been in love with growing (any & everything) since age 2, when i shoved peas into the ground with fat little fingers and a few days later, magic started happening. I make my own compost, build my own raised beds (we suffer from terrible clay soil), and use fresh veg & herbs from my (city) garden in my catering business. I'd risk saying i'm an above average gardener.
I smoked weed for the first time in college, and (strangely enough), did NOT end up with reefer madness. I've lived in a bunch of places all over the world, always enjoyed the local giggle bush, and then (eventually) i'd end up back home (family, ya know?). Never grew it myself, though.
(There is a point to this story, just bare with me ).
A good while back my favourite relative was diagnosed with cancer. He got treatment, and 3 months after his surgery he came for a visit, and i was amazed by how well he looked. (Good weight while still on chemo & radiation). His secret? You guessed it. I, of course, immediately offered to start growing for him.
The interweb is an evil, evil place with WAY too much info and far too few filters. I got confused by all the info out there - defoliation? Snipped all my flowering ladies back into veg. TWICE. Don't even get me started on my wild adventures in nutes, must have super ferts, and super special setups that cost you more than a months wages.
I forgot the basics: dirt, water & sunlight is all you need.
The point: thanks for being the voices of reason. I genuinely appreciate the level-headedness.
✌