I just found out my dads had a big stroke! Trouble being he needs urgent surgery, yet he lives in Vietnam and its not available there and he can't fly..!
Bummer. I know that some non-surgical solutions(? treatments?) for stroke victims have to be done rather soon after the incident, and if the traditional surgical methods aren't available, the pharmaceutical(?) ones probably weren't, either.
Is there some kind of ground-transport ambulance service available? I hope so...
I also hope you can manage to go see him.
We haven't really seen each other in over 15 yrs but used to be really close and more like drinking buddies.
I was never "buddies" with either of my parents. I guess they figured I had plenty of friends, and needed a set of parents a lot more than a couple more friends, lol (if that makes sense?). But I hadn't spent a lot of time with Dad before he got sick. Afterwards, well... I hope you can find a way to visit yours. We were lucky enough, I guess you could say, that his final illness was an extended thing, so there was at least some time for us to spend together.
Yet I've always been the black sheep, mainly due to taking the fall on a few major things my brother did growing up lol. He's a copper and let's just say if it wasn't for me and my actions back then he wouldn't be in the force!
Things must be a little different over there in England. I have a cousin who raised just as much <BLEEP> as the rest of us back in the day. Think he got arrested a few times. He also did his share of drugs (and, as they say, my share, your share, his share, her share, their share...). Was homeless for a while, literally living (or surviving, anyway) on the streets. Through a long series of misadventures, ended up clear on the other side of the country out near
420. At which point he decided to become a LEO. And he did - put in 20 years and retired some mid-level muckity-muck, lol. Not captain or anything but... lieutenant (
leftennant, I think you would say there?). Ha ha... My cousin the LEO. Some of us call
him the black sheep of the family
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BtW, I know the subject of this thread states "Mom" - but I would love to see you successfully manage to get to the point where you've got 15 healthy grafts on your rootstock... and then flower it! That'd be cool. Probably very difficult (assuming the 15 strains have a variety of nutritional requirements?). IDK.