I honestly don’t even bother helping growers any more unless they come to me, or pay me. Originally I was all about sharing as much information as possible but the majority of people can’t think critically enough to be given information without guidance.
For a while I gave lots of free advice and tips, and people still went and screwed their entire garden up. I gave step by step plans with measurements and all, and they still burnt every plant. It’s just not worth my time or effort any more for someone to listen to half of my advice then get mad at me when they fail spectacularly. I’m not saying stuff just to see if they’ll do it.
I can feel the hermit in me coming out
this always happens once I’m neck deep into a subject. I learn all of the publicly available information I can get my hands on and then I’m left on the bleeding edge to figure it out on my own. When this happens I get annoyed by basic questions like how to water, or what container is best. I’m not sure what it is, and I don’t like it, but I imagine it has something to do with my ego and my autism smashing into each other making me borderline arrogant. My hope is that by journaling I can keep it in check. I don’t mind answering super basic questions around here, and I think it’s because people have to put in effort just to ask the question.