nobodyhere
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Sorry your having to deal with this first hand. I am sure your dad approves of your perspective.
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That’s a hard decision but the right one I feel.
Very big of you to share that here, Shed, were all praying for you and your family.
Broke my heart to read that. Prayers for you and yours.
Super ultra hugs from me Sheddie.
I miss my Pa too.
Sending my love and positive vibes
You know you made the right decision. Take care brother
Thanks gang. I really appreciate the support, and I'm hoping for the best going forward.Sorry your having to deal with this first hand. I am sure your dad approves of your perspective.
Thanks oops. And it's always nice when you stop by to say hello! Let me know when you get another grow journal up and running.Look'n good there ITS. Tough and probably a good call on not taking a chance on bringing home the virus to your family. You and yours have our thoughts and prayers. Grow brother grow.
That's a great idea Fred, thanks! I will mention that to the dietician on Monday.Hi shed, we were fortunate in taking care of Mrs F's mom here at home through her dementia until she passed at 99. We did have hospice. When she started eating less because swallowing was difficult and losing weight , I put some vanilla flavored weight gain stuff at 1500 calories a scoop in her hot cereal or pudding every day and she gained back weight and strength. Maybe that could help your dad. I hope you get to see him soon. Prayers to you all and your families. Stay safe and stay stoned!
Thank you mumps. So many younger folks are falling to this now that even at 62 I don't know where I fall in the mortality statistics demographically. We thought it was only deadly for the older, but time has proven that wrong.hi shed, in my opinion you took the right decision not to go.
most of the european spread came from relatives visiting patients without proper equipement.
even though i suppose you are young and you shouldn't be scared deciding not to go is good communal spirit
hope everything end up well for all of you.
Right, same here. That was definitely part of the calculation.the retirement homes have been hit very hard
I'm sure he wasn't specific about rubbing alcohol, as he just went with "disinfectant." If one of his contributors manufactured rubbing alcohol I'm sure he would have been more specific!Last thing I heard is that Trump is considering to inject rubbing alcohol in his bloodstream...?
I will always remind you of how important the SB is to your neck!I had almost forgotten
I'm sure he wasn't specific about rubbing alcohol, as he just went with "disinfectant." If one of his contributors manufactured rubbing alcohol I'm sure he would have been more specific!
I will always remind you of how important the SB is to your neck!
That's the decision I had to make 2 weeks ago Shed. It's sadly the right one no matter how much it hurts. None of us would allow our children to bring the possibility of death home in exchange for a last in person goodby. I can't stop crying as I write this damn it. I know your pain Shed, you did the right thing!As soon as you get a new front door you can get back to cloning and run out of room too!
Well said J Wills!
Thanks for all your kind thoughts, but the day did not go as planned. It started with a phone call from the corporate HQ of the assisted living company telling me that someone in the memory care wing (not my dad) was diagnosed with COVID-19. So I called the director of my dad's facility to see if that was going to change the visit plans from their end, but he was so busy trying to sort out what the next steps were (with city and county health departments) with the infected person that he didn't return my calls.
I also began to wonder if it was a good idea at all, to visit a place where anyone and everyone could be infected, given the spread in old-age facilities. The virus obviously came in from someone who worked there as there have been no visitors for 6 weeks and the residents couldn't leave the place. So there's no telling how far it has spread.
I imagined that my dad was still clear-headed and was in a rehab place that had an COVID-infected patient...what would he tell me to do? Being a very cautious and selfless person, he would tell me that the health of my family was more important than going to visit him. That he'd be fine and to take care of myself and his loved ones.
And though I realize that things could go south very quickly (either with him getting the infection or just eating less and less as the days go by, and that I might not ever get to see him again), I wasn't sure the risk of bringing home the virus was something I was comfortable with. So I decided not to go until they had more knowns than unknowns.
It was a really tough decision and I'm still not completely comfortable with it, but I know that while we might have had a good time together, his life would be no different after I left than before I got there. On the other hand mine and my family's might be very different. So I just hope for the best.
Again, thanks for the love.
Being a very cautious and selfless person, he would tell me that the health of my family was more important than going to visit him. That he'd be fine and to take care of myself and his loved ones.
And though I realize that things could go south very quickly (either with him getting the infection or just eating less and less as the days go by, and that I might not ever get to see him again), I wasn't sure the risk of bringing home the virus was something I was comfortable with. So I decided not to go until they had more knowns than unknowns.
Logically you did what made sense and there's no easy answer or solution in times like this. Everyone is trying to understand what to do and with mixed messages everywhere it's very concerning for many. If others took the time that you did then maybe things wouldn't be as widespread as they are. Hopefully the staff can contain the spread and keep everyone safe at their home.It was a really tough decision and I'm still not completely comfortable with it, but I know that while we might have had a good time together, his life would be no different after I left than before I got there. On the other hand mine and my family's might be very different. So I just hope for the best.
In other news, the flowering two (soon to be one) got aspirin-water with their nutes again this morning, but the spring three got water mixed with diatomaceous earth (per @The Celt's recommendation here and here. Having no guidepost I went with ½ tablespoon/gallon along with the 3.75g/gallon Megacrop. I don't think that's something you do every time you water but I could be wrong.