Morning Yankee
I would never consider an organic soil ruined, sometimes flaws/errors in preparation may cause deficiencies.
There are certain compounds that need to be in the right ratios for healthy grow. There is a whole science around soil and plant growth involving biochemistry and exchange rates, but to keep it simple "too much of a good thing can be bad"
You were experiencing Cal/Mag issues which can be caused by a number of things. Too much potassium in your mix can cause Mg lockout which will lead to calcium deficiencies as well. As Atulip mentioned, light types can cause issues with nutrient uptake and LEDs can be notorious for this.
If the foliar spray is helping, then water your girls with a tablespoon or two of Epsom Salt in the water to increase the magnesium levels in your soil. Wait a few days to see how they respond before adding more.
Much of the information passed around is based on Hydro and Salt-Based feeds that have been used for years, and doesn't really apply to organic soils. Flushing for example does little for organics as the nutrients are not in a salt form and are not easily washed out of the soil.
One thing the Hydro people do say, that we all need to learn, is to watch your plants as you feed them and see how they respond. If they respond poorly, cut the feed back.
This applies to us with ACTs as well. If a plant responds well to the application, all is good and you can try feeding more/more often. If it responds poorly, cut back on the application.
Once we learn to read our girls, they will tell us what they want or don't want