Hopefully you can save them, if you are going to start over anyway, try changing out the soil, if you mess up no big deal and it will give you the confidence you need when the going gets rough.
I have had no problems with the coco other than when I was away for a couple weeks, my caretaker was watering right at the stem area of a couple in early veg (the two leggy 5' plants in the picture) one developed some stem rot but I caught it in time...when watering in coco like soil, you want to water near the edge of the pot to encourage the roots to spread out seeking water, watering near the stem makes them lazy and they don't develop roots...why should they when water is poured on them every day!