I agree with you 100%.
UPDATE: I got my new stuff, in the end I bought BioBizz Coco Mix and perlite seperately.
So I did a mix about 80/20(perlite). Also I had an idea that 5 gallon fabric pots too big for me now. So I kept 4 of my plants in 5 gallon pots, and I transplanted only 2 of 6 total plants to the new medium in 3 gallon pots.
I transplanted the younger ones(2 weeks younger than the rest) because of the smaller root system.
Of course I must have shocked them a bit because I tried not to damage the roots in the proccess but you know it's impossible not to
The new medium I created it's so fluffy and I think will do the job perfectly.
Now with the rest, Im gonna be so patient with the watering until they have a bigger root system in the 5 gallons pots.
I read everyone guides everyday in the forum. I try to be patient and fix the domino of disaster I created from my rookie mistakes, but I think now I am on the right track. Thanks for your help people.
I will keep you posted here.