Interesting the ways people water for thier own situations
No right answer for everyone, lots of options. I thought a lot about automatics setting up my tent as i wanted to be able to walk away and leave it for a few days at a time. Got interested in the SmartPot thing which i used an early version of years ago......but made it simpler and cheaper.
Settled on a gravity feed system as i am lucky enough to have a high, very robust shevling setup next to the grow tent. Have a 20l plastic jerry can elevated on a shelf next to the tent. Off the bottom outlet i have a 19mm poly tap valve, and below that a simple dial type tap timer. The crucial thing is that it is a ball valve version so will work at low pressure. solenoid typed require more pressure than the gravity feed will provide.
That is set to run for 3 mins every 48 hrs at the moment and i refill the jerry can about every week and a half.
As the plants get bigger i'll adjust the timing.
My plants are in pots that are designed to be used with watering mats on a GH bench. The drain holes are on the bottom so the soil is n contact with the watering mat and the water gets into the pot by capillary action. By mat, i mean the commercial sandwich style stuff which is a layer of black plastic on a flat surface (we use polystyrene sheet on the GH bench) that has a layer of "felt" (you can buy this by the roll at some hydroponics suppliers) on top, and a layer of permeable woven plastic "weedmat" on top of that.
Anyhow, from the tap timer the water flows down 4mm tubes into trays, that have a section of watering mat in them to hold and distribute the water that soaks the felt. The pots sit on that and take up as much or as little water as they need. Its sort of flood and drain, but very moderate. Roots growing out of the bottom of the pots seem nice and white, healthy...so think is all good for oxygen in the root zone and have had no over watering issues or wilting.
You can see the trays, 4mm tubes and watering mat in the above image.
Can all be reused next grow just by cleaning the watering mats and trays with bleach, and changing the AA batteries in the timer.
Think i have kept simple, cheap, and reliable. Seems to be working well for the moment.