Hey friends, I've never mentioned this before, but I really need your advice.
I have suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs, the phone rings, I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with "the girls" a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I usually fall asleep. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
Around midnight, I hid next to the garage behind a 6 foot Stankberry I have growing there so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with "the girls". When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her pantyhose out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind the Stankberry, that I noticed some yellow blotches on the lower fan leaves, right where the buds are starting to form.
Is this something I can fix myself, or should I chop it down and start another one?