re: ISEARCH56 is Learning (*_*) With Bag Seeds On The First Grow 2013
Fan leaves are the solar panels for the plant--leave them exposed. Leaf surface area + light = more sugar and more rapid growth. Fan leaves do not "take energy away" from the plant, that is hogwash.
You may be able to sex them now, I can't tell from here. With practice you can tell much earlier than you can at first. You will know for sure a week or two after you begin to flower. Have a look at this photo, this is what you are looking for:
To make the plant grow wider you have to inhibit a hormone called auxin (actually this is a class of hormones, but close enough for our purposes). Auxin resides in the tip of the plant (called the apical meristem). You may either cut the tip off entirely or just give it a squeeze--gently crush or bend the tip. Every branch underneath that location where you pinched it will grow. Even touching the plant repeatedly on its tip (daily) will inhibit auxin noticeably. You can repeat this as often as you like. I'm sure there are threads here on SCROG, but that's the principle at work.
Green: In general, dark green leaves indicate a low ammonium nitrogen:nitrate ratio while bright, supple green leaves indicate a high ammonium nitrogen:nitrate ratio. Another way of saying this is that dark greens indicate a matured (cycled) soil while brighter greens indicate a newer (uncycled) soil. Other nutrients can contribute to the quality of the green, for example an exceptionally dark green leaf can mean a Phosphorous deficiency. (In anticipation of your question, plants deficient in P will eventually turn from dark green to purple.) Don't worry about ANY of this now.
364 watts is not too much. Depending on how big you want to grow them, it may not be enough, but I think you'll be OK--I've seen some good ~400w grows. Your plants look good!