Everything you said is on point! exactly how I feel. I just remember in 2003 to 2007 me and my like 4 of my friends were buying weed all the time like we never did not have weed. We would smoke every day I was getting an Oz of Compressed weed but it was FIRE af! for $100 it tasted and smoked like just regular weed but boy that shit got us all high af. That's usually what was common those days we did it a ton. But we would also get Nice mids and top tier strains like GDP, Kush, AK47 but those were rear honestly at that time.
We smoked so much man from not 1 day we didn't smoke and never not 1 time did I smoke and say this doesn't get me high and neither did my friends. This went on from 2003 to like 2007. Same for NC several times had some very good weed but in NC it was mostly exotics. Purple Urkle, Cat Piss, Blue Dream, Super lemon haze but the thing was those were 100% true to genetics and boy SUPER SUPER potent. Like I had a Quarter of Super Lemon Haze and it was so dank but so overpowering in SATIVA effects that it gave me terrible anxiety and I ended up selling it to a friend. That was in NC like 2014. I also got amazing mids in 2008-09 in NC remember the ones they would sell in Tiny Zip lock bags? Dubs Dimes? quarters? Those were fire weed! honestly miss it. Would get so high.
Then I stopped smoking weed from 2015 up to 2019 and started again October 2019. And ever since all the weed I've gotten since October 2019 has NEVER Gotten me high. Ended up losing the connect with my friend who had all those authentic genetic strains so all I wes getting in NC was garbage since 2019. Now I am in VA and I have bought at least 5oz mix and match in total and everything I have gotten has ZERO absolute effects. Like you said I might feel calm and relax sure I feel that much but not high at all. I freaking hate it because I remember clearly how good it feels to really be high on THC but I gave up trying I am just gonna try to get some seeds, not that garbage is going around in VA probably export them if I have to and just grow my own