@ginger power I'm sorry for your loss, my condolences.
As to your crop, it is not ruined. It is simply just not done drying/curing !
There is a link in my signature to my process but in a nut shell, get yourself a hygrometer !
Amazon has five packs for ~ $20. Some find them to be off a bit but they are close enough for our purposes.
Place a couple (to get an average) with your buds in the cardboard box and give them six or so hours to register.
IF the rh is above 70% leave the lid open for an hour, close the lid and take another measurement after a few hours.
IF the rh is below 70% place your buds in an appropriately sized tupperware type container. 3/4 full is a good fit.
Then twice a day open the lid for a couple of minutes. Continue doing this daily until the buds register as either 62% or 58% (my preference). This process can take up to a month !
Then put the buds in mason jars. At this point you should have your smell and taste back !
And it will continue to improve slightly over the months, if it lasts that long..
Cheers