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re: Cardboard Flowerbox Test 3 - 41 Week Perpetual SOG
Hey, now... I grew up "yes, ma'am" and "yes, sir" too. Open doors, pull out chairs, and all...
Imagine the shock to my system when I got a CSR job down here, and was directly told NOT to say "yes, ma'am" and "yes, sir" to the customers... It was "Condescending and rude for you to talk to her like that." I simply said " Umm, where I'm from, that's considered polite, and she was from the same place, and THANKED ME for saying it." They let it slide JUST THAT ONCE but warned me not to say it again.
Later that week I was actually yelled at, called a pig, and spat on by a lady that I held the door open for at a convenience store. I was shocked at the very UN-lady-like attitude. I still open doors, and say what I was taught as polite, and if people here don't like it, they can just ignore it. I do it, for those that DO appreciate it, and admire the good teachings of a good parent. And you know what? My daughter is being taught the same way. Maybe not "Sir/Ma'am" But certainly "Yes Momom/Dadad" That's what she chose to call us, and I think it's cute. I refuse to let my daughter be seen like I see most of these idiot children running around, no respect for anyone or anything, and no discipline from the parents that should be teaching them right from wrong.
Hey, now... I grew up "yes, ma'am" and "yes, sir" too. Open doors, pull out chairs, and all...
Imagine the shock to my system when I got a CSR job down here, and was directly told NOT to say "yes, ma'am" and "yes, sir" to the customers... It was "Condescending and rude for you to talk to her like that." I simply said " Umm, where I'm from, that's considered polite, and she was from the same place, and THANKED ME for saying it." They let it slide JUST THAT ONCE but warned me not to say it again.
Later that week I was actually yelled at, called a pig, and spat on by a lady that I held the door open for at a convenience store. I was shocked at the very UN-lady-like attitude. I still open doors, and say what I was taught as polite, and if people here don't like it, they can just ignore it. I do it, for those that DO appreciate it, and admire the good teachings of a good parent. And you know what? My daughter is being taught the same way. Maybe not "Sir/Ma'am" But certainly "Yes Momom/Dadad" That's what she chose to call us, and I think it's cute. I refuse to let my daughter be seen like I see most of these idiot children running around, no respect for anyone or anything, and no discipline from the parents that should be teaching them right from wrong.