So first time grower here just running into a few issues. Like most I spent probably way too much time doing research instead of just doing. I am now in week 3 under my reflector LED and I am starting to second guess the sex of my plants. I kept looking for "balls" and couldn't really find any so I more or less guessed they were female. Can someone please confirm? I put pictures of both plants below;
Here is my first plant
Second plant;
My second question would be how do I go about forcing my plant to stretch? At nearly 4 weeks they are just now reaching about 10 inches from soil to the top of the plant yet there seems to be hundreds of leaves. A slight exaggeration, but seems too short and bushy rather than tall and slender. Is that just the strain or can something be done about that? Here are a couple pictures of the entire plants and they don't even show exactly what I am talking about. I peel back one leaf and there are 3 separate leaves hiding underneath.