seagem
Well-Known Member
Hey 12/12,
Since your post on my Berry Bomb grow (current grow) that you didnt grow any longer, I was visiting another post and seen your posts concerning your Ex.
Im not an attorney, However worked for one and have several years of knowledge concerning the Law.
first dont be worried.
second, she is in possession of the photos ( or is making threats she has them). Before they could even be considered as evidence she would need to produce them in court, (Due Process). In court means the DA has brought charges against you. Then the evidence would have to be submitted to the Judge Or Jury ( depending on what you choose for your plea. Never ever make a plea of no contest. I cant stress how important it is. Either plea Guilty or not guilty, never No contest, It might as well be a guilty.
Dont change anything around, it will look like your trying to hide from what she has in the photos. Dont change the carpet or other things.
Go rent a storage unit or stor items at a trusted friends.
Clean the whole house with bleach/water mixture. then when everything is properly secured. Invite her over, show her the rooms and tell her form this point forward you are reporting any and all threats by her to the DA. Go to the court and explain to the victim witness coordinator ( most courts have them) that she has broken into your home after however many weeks or months she has moved out or been kicked out of the home. Explain she is currently calling and harassing you. You will also be required to tell them you are in fear of what she is capable of.
You should be able to get a restraining order against her. Then a court date will be set for both of you to attend. Dont miss the court date. Just as all here have been saying play the victim.
It doesnt matter that she has photos or other things against you, she has to prove the photos were taken, they are from your place, they have not been tampered with, etc...
the only things you should be concerned with are the calls she would make to the police or sheriff, in fact you could call them and ask for an officer to please come to your place because someone is threatening you. A officer should come out. Tell them you want to make a report. Some of them wont let you make a report and tell you it is a civil matter, However you should still insist they make the report because your in fear of she might do, especially since she has broken into the house before.
If you need more info please PM me and I'll try to help where I can. Right now Im preparing a Appeal for the Supreme Court on my son for a small claims action.
Best of luck
Since your post on my Berry Bomb grow (current grow) that you didnt grow any longer, I was visiting another post and seen your posts concerning your Ex.
Im not an attorney, However worked for one and have several years of knowledge concerning the Law.
first dont be worried.
second, she is in possession of the photos ( or is making threats she has them). Before they could even be considered as evidence she would need to produce them in court, (Due Process). In court means the DA has brought charges against you. Then the evidence would have to be submitted to the Judge Or Jury ( depending on what you choose for your plea. Never ever make a plea of no contest. I cant stress how important it is. Either plea Guilty or not guilty, never No contest, It might as well be a guilty.
Dont change anything around, it will look like your trying to hide from what she has in the photos. Dont change the carpet or other things.
Go rent a storage unit or stor items at a trusted friends.
Clean the whole house with bleach/water mixture. then when everything is properly secured. Invite her over, show her the rooms and tell her form this point forward you are reporting any and all threats by her to the DA. Go to the court and explain to the victim witness coordinator ( most courts have them) that she has broken into your home after however many weeks or months she has moved out or been kicked out of the home. Explain she is currently calling and harassing you. You will also be required to tell them you are in fear of what she is capable of.
You should be able to get a restraining order against her. Then a court date will be set for both of you to attend. Dont miss the court date. Just as all here have been saying play the victim.
It doesnt matter that she has photos or other things against you, she has to prove the photos were taken, they are from your place, they have not been tampered with, etc...
the only things you should be concerned with are the calls she would make to the police or sheriff, in fact you could call them and ask for an officer to please come to your place because someone is threatening you. A officer should come out. Tell them you want to make a report. Some of them wont let you make a report and tell you it is a civil matter, However you should still insist they make the report because your in fear of she might do, especially since she has broken into the house before.
If you need more info please PM me and I'll try to help where I can. Right now Im preparing a Appeal for the Supreme Court on my son for a small claims action.
Best of luck
