basicaly whats happend is i have a blue widow witch was growing fine until i came across spidermite on the plant at the bottom, this is outdoor by the way, and i looked on the internet for home remedy for getting rid of the bastard spidermite and found somthing saying i could use washing up liquid so i mixed 3 table spoons with a gallon of water like it said and sprayed the undersides of the leaves thurrely i woke up this morning and to my shock my baby was drooped down with brown marks all over most of the leaves witch it didont have the day befor i sprayed it the spidermites have gone now but it looks like its going to die please can someone help me and tell me what u think do u think it will survive or shall i chuck it and start again im so gutted it was pretty big aswel i did also wash it off a little tiny bit after spraying but not much and it has been waterd quite heavily along with the leaves being sprayed please help heres some photos below...