Male "Balls" will show up directly from the nodes, on small stalks, in groups of 2 or 4. Female preflowers will show up on growing tips and will exhibit two long thin white hairs per calyx.
Thank you all for helping my wife she passed the first step of learning, If you do not know ask where someone does. Right now the plant is getting really big and I only vegged it for 3 weeks,Lights went out it went crazy and I am starting to think it was the wrong choice for a tent grow it still has not shown evidence of one way or the other.