I texted him “OMG I just saw my friends dad, we were at his house last night having a party and he caught us smoking weed. It’s always awkward seeing him after he catches us but he just smiles anyway and acts all cool about it.”
All he said was “Oh, so what I tell you doesn’t matter huh.”
“That was before we got together, and don’t forget what you told me you were doing last weekend.”
“What? Studying?”
“No Mr. Silver Haze, don’t play dumb with me.”
I immediately felt like dog shit.
I texted him back “You know I respect you and what you say.”
No reply.
“Ok?”
“Ok. I’ll talk to you later, I’m driving.”
He. Was. Mad.
But whatever, I didn’t need the stress before the exam. I decided to let him fill in the blank that he was being completely hypocritical due to the fact that he partook in such activities several times after he forbid me do. But NOW it was convenient for him to say he quit. Whatever.
Well, ten days after he swore to his “Love” for me, he exclaimed that he didn’t have time for us. I told him that he sucked and he said goodbye and so did I.
But like, I said goodbye for the night.
So when I log into facebook a week later I notice all his old status’s posted before the eighth were all “my next relationship this’ “my next relationship that” to “hahaha a relationship is not for me right now” to “next girl I have can’t smoke. Ew.” Couldn’t figure out why he was deliberately trying to hurt me.
I say all this to say, I have not smoked since the moment he told me he loved me. Obviously this wasn’t true, but I’m asking everyone women and men for some truthful and or uplifting words on the subject. Hold no punches and please speak your hearts. Usually cannabis is a mutual thing between people who decide to be together but far too often do I see relationships end for the same reason. Why the hypocrisy? Even worse, why the sexism? This issue sprang from two star-crossed stoners so I know that I can find the insightful response I seek in this community. Trying to see if I can save it for my first harvest. But I just wanna know, fellas…
Can I piff?
All he said was “Oh, so what I tell you doesn’t matter huh.”
“That was before we got together, and don’t forget what you told me you were doing last weekend.”
“What? Studying?”
“No Mr. Silver Haze, don’t play dumb with me.”
I immediately felt like dog shit.
I texted him back “You know I respect you and what you say.”
No reply.
“Ok?”
“Ok. I’ll talk to you later, I’m driving.”
He. Was. Mad.
But whatever, I didn’t need the stress before the exam. I decided to let him fill in the blank that he was being completely hypocritical due to the fact that he partook in such activities several times after he forbid me do. But NOW it was convenient for him to say he quit. Whatever.
Well, ten days after he swore to his “Love” for me, he exclaimed that he didn’t have time for us. I told him that he sucked and he said goodbye and so did I.
But like, I said goodbye for the night.
So when I log into facebook a week later I notice all his old status’s posted before the eighth were all “my next relationship this’ “my next relationship that” to “hahaha a relationship is not for me right now” to “next girl I have can’t smoke. Ew.” Couldn’t figure out why he was deliberately trying to hurt me.
I say all this to say, I have not smoked since the moment he told me he loved me. Obviously this wasn’t true, but I’m asking everyone women and men for some truthful and or uplifting words on the subject. Hold no punches and please speak your hearts. Usually cannabis is a mutual thing between people who decide to be together but far too often do I see relationships end for the same reason. Why the hypocrisy? Even worse, why the sexism? This issue sprang from two star-crossed stoners so I know that I can find the insightful response I seek in this community. Trying to see if I can save it for my first harvest. But I just wanna know, fellas…
Can I piff?
